Tuesday, 25 July 2023

Fear Of Missing Out – Verpassungsangst


There is no Dutch word yet for FOMO, the Fear Of Missing Out. Germans have the word Verpassungsangst, but the literal Dutch translation 'misangst' doesn’t sound well and could give rise to ambiguities. Anyway, there’s no better time to feel FOMO than vacation time.

Vacation time never brings us what we hope for. We hope to have a chill time, enjoying the magic of places. This is rarely the case. The reason is we think we will be alone at our destination. Everyone we know, seems to go elsewhere. We want to visit another place as an observer; we want to see the place as we imagine it to be and we think we will come back with a unique experience, displayed on unique pictures. Be aware however, if everyone wants to visit this unique place, you will not be alone. You will also belong to the thousands of people who change the image of this place. This is already the case for Venice, Bruges and Barcelona.

It is like in quantum mechanics. If the object is small, the observer influences the observed object. If we don’t want this, we should consider a more ecological way of travelling, the most ecological one being to stay at home and travel in our head by reading books. Immanuel Kant travelled like that.

I refer to my blog Leaving Lazy Tasty Land.

Picture: St Christopher statue and tower of Ulmer dom 2018©Wim Lahaye. St Christopher is the patron saint of the travellers.

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