In the social media, we discover our fellow human beings are
often wrong about many things: be it elections, climate or the meaning of woke.
Even in academic circles, the reasoning of our fellow human beings is far from
straight. The most educated people may end up with totally opposite opinions,
depending on how their youth traumas made them look at the world. We may deeply
regret this but generally we have no other option than to live with it. If our fellow
human beings are wrong so often about so many things, why couldn't they be
wrong about us? We do our best in the hope that humanity keeps a nice track
record about us. Alas, humanity does not care.
In general, gossip, misunderstanding and stupidity may
destroy our reputation in our limited social habitat. It doesn't help to be
perfect: don't even try this! Instead, accept it, let it go and allow
your fellow human beings to be wrong or at least incomplete about you. You rarely
lose anything by allowing that to happen. People say stupid things all the time
and they would have been wrong about you anyway! The happy ending is not that you
become a swan, but you may feel like one! You win an enormous freedom: the
freedom to be and to do what you like. You will no longer be paralysed. This
can be a very liberating thought.
I also refer to another Hans Christian Andersen's fairy tale: the
Emperor's New Clothes.
Picture: from the book Andersens Sprookjesschat, Zuid-Nederlandse Uitgeverij – Antwerpen/Amsterdam 1966
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