In a lot of cases, employees get discouraged because their
opinion is never really asked. A computer questionnaire is not a good way to
collect opinions. The ambient noise level in computerised companies is so high
that only the loudest voices are being heard. This is most discouraging. Simon
Sinek insists that good leaders are good listeners and that employees can only
achieve the (‘Herzberg’) job satisfaction by looking for their ‘why’. Hilde
Helsen developed her own method to assist Dreamers who Do in achieving this.
Happiness at work cannot be an employer’s responsibility
only. Employees also need to get rid of meritocratic compulsive thoughts. One
typical compulsive thought sounds like this: if employee A is the manager of employee B, then A must be happy and B must be unhappy. A must be the best and B must
have done something wrong in the past; B can only blame himself. You may notice this reasoning is ludicrous, but suppose you end up in situation B? Jealousy (in German there is a more subtle nuance between Eifersucht and Neid) is a bad idea. How ridiculously this may sound, it dominates the
way we think in a meritocratic society. The way we think is a perfect recipe to be unhappy at work.
I refer to my blogs: “The Why of Technology” and “Intrinsic and Extrinsic Motivation”.
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